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To love your loneliness

Who said that loneliness is always bad? It is worth looking at loneliness from the other side, to see not only what is not in it (communication with others), but also what is in it – first of all, communication with oneself, internal dialogue.

Loneliness – scourge of large cities. The more people around, the less communication. And there is a feeling that it is bad because there is no one to communicate with, and crowds of people who lack communication, come up with different ways to organize it somehow at any cost-no matter why and what. The main thing is not to be alone.

Or it seems that all this is happening because of our inability to communicate: we must learn-and the same crowds stand in line for communication trainings. And when a person still remains in four walls, he seeks to turn on music or TV in order to drown the silence, fill the void … There is almost a drug dependence on communication with others-anyway, on a loud sound-just not to be silent.

But who said that loneliness is always bad? On the contrary, all great people: spiritual teachers, writers and artists, scientists, commanders – very much appreciated loneliness as the most important resource of their creativity and self -development. It is worth looking at loneliness from the other side, to see not only what is not in it (communication with others), but also what is in it – first of all, communication with oneself, internal dialogue.

Our consciousness, as shown by the outstanding https://torontolim.com/2023/06/25/22bet-promo-code-february-2023-get-up-to-n130-000-29/ Russian philosopher, culturalist and literary critic Mikhail Bakhtin, is polyphonically, there are many votes that lead an internal dialogue, and through this internal dialogue we develop, expand our understanding and form a complex picture of the world. Only alone, in a pause this dialogue is possible. Not everyone is equally productive: many simply do not want to listen to their inner voice, they are bored to communicate with themselves. But it is worth thinking: if I am not interested in myself, if I am for myself – an undesirable interlocutor, will others be interested?

It is interesting with a person who does not look like others, and this unlikely can provide either unique experience or equally unique internal work through a dialogue with himself. The flight from him leads to indistinguishable equality. In my opinion, the training of loneliness would be much more important than teaching communication.

Communication with others and communication with you is not a hindrance to each other. If you learn to be alone, love your loneliness and use it as an internal resource, this allows you to choose yourself when, with whom and for what to communicate, and easier to endure the interruption of significant relations. Communication with others is an equally important resource, it serves as a source of unique life experience. Which is then, having secluded, to understand thoroughly.

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